The Boomerang Effect Pt. 2
ok..so by now you know my boy is walking around all ho hum because the boomerang hit him in the face, right between in the eyes. This leads into our second discussion. When is it time to walk away?
He has been trying to reach out to this girl for a month now and she will not even speak with him. He sent her flowers, nothing. He calls her weekly, no response. He thinks about her alot, I know because he bugs the hell out of me talking about her. He just doesn't get how she could do this to him. My advice to him was leave her alone, if she was not woman enough to even say thank you for $100 roses, then you don't need her! She could at least tell him to leave her the hell alone, go away, beat it, let it burn or something. But instead, she remains silent. At first I admired her, I was like "Yeah girl..pimp him! He deserves it for not opening up", but that was a month ago and she still playing games. CUT HER LOOSE!
So here is the kicker. After he has called her repeatedly and sent her flowers, he now wants to get her another round of flowers and a birthday gift. Not just a gift, but a whole outfit. I told him he was officially a punk. How you gonna buy a chick more gifts when she don't even talk to you? It is time to let her go, move on. Don't you think? Why would you continue to waste time and money on someone who doesn't want you? Classic case of being @#$^* whipped! It has to be in her pants!
I know he read this blog, so please...give this lovesick fool some advice.
He has been trying to reach out to this girl for a month now and she will not even speak with him. He sent her flowers, nothing. He calls her weekly, no response. He thinks about her alot, I know because he bugs the hell out of me talking about her. He just doesn't get how she could do this to him. My advice to him was leave her alone, if she was not woman enough to even say thank you for $100 roses, then you don't need her! She could at least tell him to leave her the hell alone, go away, beat it, let it burn or something. But instead, she remains silent. At first I admired her, I was like "Yeah girl..pimp him! He deserves it for not opening up", but that was a month ago and she still playing games. CUT HER LOOSE!
So here is the kicker. After he has called her repeatedly and sent her flowers, he now wants to get her another round of flowers and a birthday gift. Not just a gift, but a whole outfit. I told him he was officially a punk. How you gonna buy a chick more gifts when she don't even talk to you? It is time to let her go, move on. Don't you think? Why would you continue to waste time and money on someone who doesn't want you? Classic case of being @#$^* whipped! It has to be in her pants!
I know he read this blog, so please...give this lovesick fool some advice.
posted by Mz Cane at 2:58 PM
6 Comments:
Ok...this seems like a classic case of the male-female dynamic (i.e....its all about being the "right guy" for the girl and all about being the "right time" for the guy) She was all up in his grill because in her mind she had found the right guy, but he played her. He played her because he was thinking he had all the TIME in the world to sample the female population.
Eventually she got fed up or wised up and realized that ole boy is not the RIGHT guy afterall. So, no amount of roses will change her mind after that decision is made. Even if she doesn't realize it and takes him back, it will only be temporary. The damage is done.
My advice to the guy...be like every other guy. If its your time for a "relationship", the next girl will do.
Tell the brotha to give it up. Women go through stages: 1- I've found him, I love him, I'll do anything to keep him. 2- If I try a little harder, just maybe he'll realize. 3- This ain't workin, I'll give him a little time and make him miss me. 4- F*ck that ni**a, I'm done. She is definitely in stage 4. She will take all that he gives because she feels owed something but she ain't coming back. She and her girls are sitting somewhere laughin at him right now. And for all he knows she has a new man.
Now just imagine how she felt all that time. Live, learn, move on.
Let her go. Consider her the one you lost. Just take this as a lesson learned.
I know that it is not easy but let her go before you incur debt trying to catch the eye of someone who ain't seeing you.
At least the next girl who catches your attention, you will have the opportunity to treat her like queen that she is. And she will treat you like the king that you are.
peace
Call me ruthless but I say well deserved. Man up! Let it go! Let her go! You have wasted enough time....hers and yours. Look at the time you have lost on her that could have been on someone else. Get back in the game. Play it a little better this time. Play to win. And when I say win I mean the girl...not the game!!
As you know by now, you are going about this all the wrong way. Just like you are enticed by her "hard to get status" you are getting no where by sweating her. Get a another chick that is better than a 7-7-5 and that knows her. Give the new girl something to talk about. Once word gets back to Ol' girl, your stock goes up. But you can't give Ol' girl the time of day. because ....shit yall seen the movie. You never want Halle Berry to say "Love should have brought your ass home last night"
I’m not trying to say I’m a ‘Mack’ or anything, but if a girl is after me I’m loving it and going to give her some play just to see where it goes if I’m not taken of course. I love it when women peruse me make my job that much easier. It seems like she was just an ok looking girl based off of Mz. Cane description and when girl give other girls a low score it is true. Get over her there are so many other girl out that and who were you with when she wanted you maybe since you thought she was better you should go back to her now. In the words of Lauryn Hill “You might win some but you really lost one You just lost one, it's so silly how come”. So just move on buddy.
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